Bondage for Sex

Versatile techniques for adding bondage to every kind of sex
A person in a white bodysuit lying on their back with their ankles tied to their wrists and pulled apart by ropes.

Upcoming sessions

Saturday 6/8

1:00 PM - 4:00 PM
Gallery Erato
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Saturday 10/12

1:00 PM - 4:00 PM
Gallery Erato
FetLife event

Class Details

Level:
Intermediate
Prerequisites:
Length:
3 hours

Sex and bondage are two of our favorite things, and they’re even better together. In this class we’ll show you how to use bondage to create intimacy and make your sex hotter and more connective.

Of course we’ll cover plenty of ties that work well for sex. The futomomo is a classic bondage technique that lets you control and spread your partner’s legs, and the piledriver is an excellent position for penetrative sex. We’ll also look at how to use crotch rope to stimulate your partner’s naughty bits, and learn rope harnesses for strap-on dildos and vibrators.

Beyond specific ties, this class focuses on building fundamental skills. We’ll take a deep look at the versatile spiral wrapping technique and work on rope handling skills that will make all your bondage smoother and better. Throughout the class we’ll talk about how to use touch, pacing, and intention to build intimacy and connection.

The 34 page color handout includes all the class material as well as additional ties to practice at home.

Practical details
This class is most fun if you take it with a partner.
We’ll provide practice rope if you don’t have your own.

Covid policies for 6/8
We require proof of a covid vaccine within the last 2 years. If you need a medical exemption to this policy, please contact us at least 3 days before class.

We will announce the masking policy for this class on 5/11. If you buy tickets for a class before the covid policy has been finalized, please understand that masks may or may not be required.

Covid policies for 10/12
We require proof of a covid vaccine within the last 2 years. If you need a medical exemption to this policy, please contact us at least 3 days before class.

We will announce the masking policy for this class on 9/14. If you buy tickets for a class before the covid policy has been finalized, please understand that masks may or may not be required.

Online class materials
Class content
Class outline

Printable class materials
Class handout
Class outline

Class content

Introduction

Welcome to Bondage for Sex!

In this class we’ll learn a number of bondage techniques that are particularly well-suited to sexy times. More importantly, though, we’re going to focus on how to tie in a way that builds a sensual connection with your partner.

Module 1: The Spiral Futomomo

This module introduces the futomomo, a classic tie for binding the thigh and calf together. We’ll look at two different ways to tie a futo: the spiral futomomo is inspired by Japanese rope bondage, while the ladder futomomo is a hybrid technique typical of modern fusion bondage.

The spiral futomomo is a great platform for practicing foundational bondage skills like managing tension and using Munter frictions. If you want to improve your bondage skills, consider spending a few hours tying spiral futomomos and focusing on getting all the details just right.

Module 2: Sexy Times

In this module we’ll look at ways to put rope on your naughty bits. We’ll learn crotch ropes that stimulate the genitals, and harnesses for attaching dildos and vibrators.

And when you’re done doing dirty things, we’ll talk about how to wash your rope so it’s clean and ready for next time.

Module 3: Putting it all Together

This module introduces two of our favorite positions for having sex in: the crab position and the piledriver.

In the classroom, we spend much of this module focusing on connective tying techniques.

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