We love the kneeling position: it’s easy to tie and works well for all kinds of mischief. Like all our favorite positions, it’s tremendously versatile:
1Have your partner kneel. Maybe take a moment to act all domly, if you have that kind of dynamic.
2Bring the arms together in an antiparallel position behind the back and tie them together with a single column tie.
Tying the arms in a crossed position can cause the rope to scissor and tighten when the arms shift.
OPTION2aIf the antiparallel position isn’t comfortable for you, you can separate the arms with a bar tie.
Alternatively, you can tie the arms in front of the body.
3Tie the ankles together with a single column tie.
Many people have trouble with their ankles grinding together: frapping can help by creating some padding between the ankles.
Your partner is all tied up—it’s time to do some naughty things to them. Depending on what the two of you have negotiated, you could try:
Rope is a powerful tool for creating a feeling of helplessness and submission.
Hair pulling is a great way to enhance d/s play.
The kneeling position is great for both oral and penetrative sex. Consider bending your partner over a bed or couch.
Kneeling is a natural position for spanking, especially with your partner bent over.
The kneeling position is a great way to “park” your partner for a minute while you prepare for the next activity.
Putting a giant column tie around the thighs and calves makes the position stricter. Frapping it will help keep the tie from sliding off.
Gags and blindfolds are good ways to add intensity.
Instead of tying your partner’s hands behind their back, consider tying them behind their head.